Updated: September 17, 2025
For families going through a separation or divorce in Calgary, it is a challenging and emotional time. There is much to consider as you plan your future lives. It is almost impossible to organize everything without the help and advice of legal professionals.
The decisions you make now will affect the rest of your life, as well as the lives of your children.
Working closely with an experienced Calgary divorce lawyer can provide valuable support for your best interests through mediation, collaboration or litigation.
The divorce lawyers at Jennings Family Law will help you understand the divorce process and make the best decisions possible for your future.
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Every separation or divorce scenario is unique, yet the fundamental commonality lies in the breakdown of the marital union. The Divorce Act of Alberta delineates three legally accepted reasons for divorce, often mislabeled as “grounds”.
Spouses must have lived apart for a minimum of 12 consecutive months. This period of separation is crucial and serves as a testament to the irretrievable breakdown of the marital relationship.
Adultery refers to the act of a spouse engaging in a sexual relationship outside the marriage. If adultery is established, divorce can be pursued without the prerequisite of a separation period. Alberta courts explicitly recognize physical sexual relationships as constituting adultery, excluding “internet affairs”.
If a spouse subjects the other to physical or mental cruelty, rendering cohabitation untenable, divorce can be sought without a separation period. The threshold for cruelty encompasses both physical and psychological harm inflicted upon the spouse seeking divorce.
Understanding the grounds for divorce in Alberta is pivotal in navigating the legal complexities of marital dissolution. Whether through separation, adultery, or cruelty, these legal provisions aim to address the irretrievable breakdown of the marital bond, paving the way for the dissolution of the union.
The basic divorce process is the same in Alberta as it is in other provinces.
However, the precise procedure for your divorce will depend on the circumstances of your separation and how easily you and your spouse can agree on the key elements of the separation agreement, namely:
Every divorce must pass through the Alberta courts at some point, though you may not have to appear before a judge.
The judge must always sign a divorce order before it is finalised – whether your divorce is contested or uncontested.
Before you get to that stage, it can take months of back and forth between family lawyers, mediators, and the courts.
At Jennings Family Law, we aim to remove the frustration and confusion and make it as simple as possible. This is generally in the best interests of both spouses and the children from the marriage.
Before the divorce procedure can start, make sure that:
In Alberta, the most common ground for divorce is living separate and apart for at least one year. Once you meet this and other eligibility requirements, the following steps typically apply when filing for divorce in Calgary:
This process can take several months or longer, depending on the complexity of your case. However, under certain conditions—such as proven adultery or family violence—it may be possible to expedite the proceedings. A consultation with one of our experienced Calgary family lawyers can help determine whether your situation qualifies for a faster resolution.
When proceeding with a divorce, you will normally have a written separation agreement that details the terms of your separation from your spouse.
This process may be more straightforward if:
However, many divorces run into problems at this emotional time.
Legal assistance is highly recommended to prevent decisions being made that jeopardize future arrangements and which the Calgary courts may not agree to.
With children, property, and financial issues to resolve, important decisions must be made and sometimes even mediation or collaboration between lawyers cannot lead to an agreement. It is worth noting that any issues that arise from children must be resolved before a divorce can be granted.
In these cases, the court will decide on the key terms of separation.
Every divorce is different because every relationship is different.
If you and your spouse prefer negotiation rather than an adversarial process, the courtroom is not the only option for settling the terms.
Our lawyers can help guide you to a mutually beneficial agreement that puts you in the best possible position to move forward with your lives separately.
Several strategies can be used to help you in this process.
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Divorce mediation occurs when you and your spouse agree to appoint a professional family mediator to provide guidance in the negotiation process.
This mediator could be a lawyer or any professional who is trained in mediation. They must be independent and able to provide expert and objective guidance and advice.
Importantly, the decisions remain private and you remain in control of decision-making. The mediator just helps you come to an agreement as a couple.
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Divorce arbitration is often used when divorcing couples cannot agree on a settlement but want to keep their affairs private and out of the courtroom.
In this situation, an independent arbitrator is appointed and both spouses sign documents whereby they agree to abide by the decisions of the arbitrator.
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Often, when mediation, arbitration or collaborative law does not bring about an agreement, the spouses end up letting the courts decide.
Litigation is when you appoint a lawyer to defend your best interests against the interests of your spouse, who is represented by an opposing lawyer.
The presiding judge will decide on the terms of separation after hearing arguments from both sides, often including testimony from witnesses.
A collaborative divorce happens when you work with your family lawyer to negotiate with your spouse and his/her lawyer, usually during a series of meetings aimed at resolving the main disputed elements of a divorce or separation agreement.
Both spouses commit to a collaborative divorce process that keeps the decisions within their control, retains privacy, and is often best for the children from the marriage.
In Alberta, a matrimonial property must be divided equally between divorcing spouses, less any exemptions.
This process usually begins during the separation period for practical reasons, but it is not legally enforceable until your divorce is finalized.
Matrimonial property is deemed to be anything accumulated during the period of the marriage, and usually includes an increase in the value of any assets acquired before the marriage.
It includes property such as:
Property division during divorce or separation can become complex and adversarial without the guidance of an experienced divorce lawyer.
If you have any questions about the divorce process, in Calgary or Airdrie, or would like to discuss your personal situation with an experienced divorce lawyer, start with an initial consultation.
After a short discussion, we can provide an assessment of your position and recommendations for the way forward with the separation process.
Call (403) 316-0138 to request a confidential consultation, contact us directly online, or email Warren Jennings directly at warren@jenningsfamilylaw.com.
